I don't know what I'm doing

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I don't know what I'm doing

Unread postby Idkwhatsgoingon » 23rd June, 2018, 5:24 pm

First off hi lol, um I've gotten myself into a situation that I think I want to get out of but I also don't feel like being a dick. To clarify Im "dating" a guy that dm'd me and we've been talking for about three months now, and he's very serious like he's already saying Ily and all that, and while I'm aware I probably should've mentioned my discomfort at the beginning, I didn't. So now I'm like at this point where I kinda just want to block him, or just keep dealing with it and forcing myself to progress in a relationship I don't really want to, or slowly and agonizingly pulling away and I guess just growing apart and breaking up. Now out of all those I realize there's still the option to tell him all of this, but knowing me that's probably not gonna happen. Also I think this might be a confusing read so if anybody has like follow up questions ill be happy to answer them. Anyway thx a bunch
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Unread postby Petre » 23rd June, 2018, 5:56 pm

Think about it like pulling off a band-aid: the faster you do it, the quicker the pain goes away.
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Re: I don't know what I'm doing

Unread postby Hierax » 24th June, 2018, 4:44 pm

Petre wrote:Think about it like pulling off a band-aid: the faster you do it, the quicker the pain goes away.

I second this
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Re: I don't know what I'm doing

Unread postby Idkwhatsgoingon » 24th June, 2018, 4:54 pm

Yeah that's the best choice and I would like to say I can pull it off but I know I can't and will most likely not say anything and stay in the relationship until I can't anymore. This also just proves to me that I can't be trusted to make my own decisions, and that I'm definitely not ready for anything beyond friendship
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