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Unread postby themaster154 » 23rd August, 2018, 10:50 am

i know people say sexuality is fluid but thats not the answer im looking for

so i have liked guys since i was like 12 or 13 and it felt right like its the real me im 19 now and i have a lot of worries but im scared im going to turn straight i mean i dont see women the same waay i do as guys there meh to me but im scared it will change and i will turn straight.
i know i like dicks and guys bodys and faces i want to be with a guy it feels right but i dont feel the same about women never have but when im sure i like guys. its like i then doubt myself and have all these thoughts

SO what i want to know is dose sexuality change or what like am i gonna turn straight overnight or am i just worrying about nothing
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Unread postby Zephyrus » 23rd August, 2018, 12:31 pm

I'm no scientist, but I don't think sexuality is fluid. I think it is highly unlikely that you will wake up straight one morning. That kind of drastic change will not just happen overnight, so you don't have anything to worry about.

What you have to think is that you've been gay since you were 12, it is highly unlikely that you will 'become straight' now, instead of during puberty when hormones and shit like that are changing things. That's my take. So try not to worry, enjoy being gay - I think you're safe from becoming straight. :keke:
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Unread postby MaskedPanda » 24th August, 2018, 10:12 pm

Can it be slightly worded better? not trying ot be mean, just want to know if you are saying you are starting to feel attracted to girls or not. But no, I really doubt you can turn straight, evidence conversion therapy.
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Unread postby PinkUkulele » 25th August, 2018, 7:30 am

Honestly I understand what ur going through I've had the same thoughts for months now, and the best way I've been able to not be as worried by this is to remember what exactly it is u like about guys (like the things you've already stated) and try thinking about whether u like girls at all and then comparing those attractions.
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Unread postby themaster154 » 26th August, 2018, 9:40 am

thast the thing though i dont have a sexual attraction to girls or anything like that its just im scared it will happen or i will change.
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Unread postby PinkUkulele » 26th August, 2018, 9:57 am

If u don't have any attractions to girls then I can't see any way that u could turn straight, all that stuff that people say about phases and stuff like that are just myths, u should stop worrying about it so much and just try to enjoy the way u are without worrying about it changing, because it won't
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Unread postby themaster154 » 26th August, 2018, 10:45 am

thank you so much just to be clear though im 19 i wont just become attracted will i because on other forms they say sexuality is fluid and it can change.

so this is probably just in my head?
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Unread postby PinkUkulele » 26th August, 2018, 11:09 am

"Sexuality is fluid" doesn't apply to a lot of people, I'm bi and I don't think it applies to me, I'm pretty sure most people who say sexuality is fluid are people who are pansexual, because it applies more accurately to them than other orientations. Short story long; if you're gay you will likely still be gay the rest of your life, and even if u were to start being a little straight, which is unlikely, u won't ever stop liking the gender u like now. So yes it probably is just in your head. ?
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Unread postby Wayde » 6th September, 2018, 11:56 am

Honestly, that sounds like a pretty normal fear. I used to experience the same thing. I knew that coming out would be terrible on me because of my family and the mindset of the environment I was raised in, so, for a while, even when I wanted to start dating or trying stuff out, I didn't. I also used to spend a good bit of time wishing that I was straight and thinking about how much easier it would be, so maybe it was also a little bit of that peeking through because I was scared to accept myself completely. I can't say if the situation will be exactly the same for you, but, for me, I eventually just worked up the courage to fully accept myself and move past it. Now, when I think about my boyfriend and our relationship, its laughable to me that I was ever scared that I would "turn straight". Nope, I'm definitely as gay as they come, haha!
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Unread postby Russell » 8th September, 2018, 10:44 pm

It's just the ingrained dregs of societal denial peaking through.

If you like guys, you like guys... that's it. It doesn't change, there are no phases Image It may be that you might like girls as well (feel free to experiment on that one) but even if you end up liking girls as well, it won't change the way your feel about boys. You're stressing out for no reason, just go with the flow and listen to your body.
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Unread postby themaster154 » 11th September, 2018, 9:16 am

Lol i am being silly i guess its just a stupid fear like i got scared once because i got hard to straight porn but im gay so i guess thats why i panicked a little thought i was going straight and that even if i did like girls i would lose my attraction to men. like womens parts dont do it for me like i just dont see myself wanking to them or anything they dont make me feel the same way as guys do im just scared it will change ive like guys since 13 im 19 now i dont see myself with a girlfriend or anything like that
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