Hello GTF folks! Could I please get your advice?

I am still in the closet, but there's this guy. I met him in 2007 on an out-of-state church ski trip. He was a grade or two ahead of me (I think I was in 8th grade at that time). He kind of acted feminine, he talked with "the lisp" and seemed interested in me. We exchanged phone numbers not long before I went back home. We talked on the phone some at first, but later we just texted each other. A year later, my church had this big youth event and his church came to it. So we hung out there. That event lasted for the weekend only. That was the last time I saw him (So this was 2008).

I am assuming that sometime during this event (in between church there were big inflatables and games and things like that) that he somehow saw my feet. After he went back home, he talked a lot about shoes and asked for pictures of my shoes, which I sent to him. He started talking about stuff that I thought was stupid. "Hey, lets pretend there are tiny people that live in our shoes!" and things like that. It annoyed me, and we got in several arguments. Finally I got fed up with his weirdness and stopped talking to him. I ignored all his messages, and eventually he stopped talking to me.

I had almost forgotten that he existed until late 2010-early 2011, when he found me on Facebook and sent me a friend request. By that time I had gotten over - and forgotten - how I thought he was weird, and was actually a bit glad to hear from him. So, we began to text again. As an older teen who, despite growing up in a fundamentalist Christian cult-like atmosphere, understood innuendo and other things of a sexual nature; it became very obvious to me that he has a MAJOR foot fetish. Not that there's anything wrong with that. I don't really understand it, but whatever; everybody has their things. But this guy seemed to take it further. He once told me that I had beautiful feet. He talked about how he wanted to be my "foot slave" and lick my shoes, socks, and feet, and be a human footrest for me. One time I explicitly asked him: "Do you have a foot fetish?" Of course he denied it. "No, no, no! That's a sin!" But to me, it's very obvious that he does.

I stopped talking to him for a while in 2011 because his texts kind of made me uncomfortable. Not necessarily because of their content, but because at the time I was still a Christian (I'm agnostic now) and felt that the conversation was wicked and not pleasing to God. But about a month ago we started texting again. I tried to see things through different eyes. I tried to look at it through the eyes of a normal person. The other day during a conversation he sent me a text that explicitly said the following: "I like sweaty and smelly feet : ) " And despite my best efforts, it creeped me out. So, I'm not really sure if this guy likes me, or if he is just being a creep. I am about 90% sure this guy is a closeted gay in denial. I think the reason it creeps me out so much is because we've never made an effort to actually get to know each other. I couldn't tell you what his interests are (besides shoes and feet), or what kind of music he likes. But he feels comfortable telling me that he wants to get in my shoes and lick my feet. By the way, He is probably about 21 now, and I'm 19. He's in college. I'm just not sure what to do from this point on. Is this guy just interested in me, and doesn't know how to talk to others very well; or is this guy just a perverted creep that gets horny while looking at pictures of my shoes from 2008? Everyone's advice, opinions, questions, and input on the situation would be very appreciated!

Well that's weird af.

Obviously this guy has an overwhelming foot fetish and isn't shy to ask for his treat.
You should give him a straight out if you aren't comfortable with his request.

Now that is some funny shit bro.

He wants to lick your crusty ass feet?


Ew

I swear all of the creepers come in that grade,i had my fair share of creepers in 8th grade,i gave one my number once(big mistake,he kept calling every day,i ended up changing the phone number).

I'd advice to talk to him,tell him you feel uncomfortable with the situation or ignore him.
Using a knife is also an option

Knives are for fags, I suggest a good shotgun blast to the heart.

l.m.a.o

Well have fun with that if it were me, I would just ignore him again. It doesn't seem like it, but there's millions of fish in the sea... Millions without that weird foot fetish.

does he look like this

Yes, it is super weird and nasty. Every time I've tried to ignore him, he will start texting me nonstop every day with messages like "Why do you hate me" "Did I do something wrong?" "I'm sorry I'm so stupid" "are you mad at me" and the like. I swear, he acts like a 14-year-old girl. I wish I would have never gone on that stupid ski trip!

Well do you like him excluding his foot fetish? Or do you just generally dislike him anyway?

I don't really have an interest in him anymore. I WAS interested in getting to know him and at least seeing if I would be interested in him, but all he does is talk about feet and act like a baby. I want to date someone that I can actually have a conversation with. He just seems somewhat shallow to me. Though last time I talked to him we actually had a pretty interesting conversation about politics, but that's the ONLY conversation I ever remember having with him that was interesting. I would like to have gotten to know him, but at this point I don't think I want to, since he seems to be more interested in finding someone to let him live out his fantasy on.

Conor, I almost peed reading your post.

OT: This kid's a creep who wants to have pedial coitus with you. He doesn't want you, he wants your feet. Obviously you're not interested, and he's creeped you out beyond any chance of wanting to get to know him. My advice, have some fun and be a sarcastic asshole with him. You could always forward his messages to all of his friends as well, always a good laugh.

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