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Unread postPosted: 16th April, 2012, 9:56 pm 
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So I have this friend, I've know him for about 3 years now and been friend with him for about two of those years. He is the opposite of everyone I have ever had a crush on but I fell for him pretty hard. I don't know if he is straight or not. He is a gymnast :unf: and is pretty flamboyant. The biggest thing was when he broke up with his girlfriend and we were talking about it and he said "it just didn't feel right." Now grad is coming up and he is going (Not going with him) but I do plan on telling him how I feel because I feel guilty whenever we hang out and I dont tell him. I guess what I am asking is how do I bring it up and tell him without trying to be a fag. He knows about me and I am almost certain he knows that I like him, I just feel that he doesn't wanna ruin anything.

  
 
Unread postPosted: 16th April, 2012, 10:35 pm 
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You'll never know until you tell him. Just do it.

  
 
Unread postPosted: 17th April, 2012, 2:58 am 
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Tell him. Say that its okay if he doesn't feel the same way and that you'd still like to be his friend. Honesty is the best policy ( I cant believe I just said that :facepalm: ...)

  
 
Unread postPosted: 17th April, 2012, 8:33 am 
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First of all,does he have the same feelings for you? i mean,just because he might be gay or at the very least bisexual,then that doesn't mean he is interested in you.

Unless your sure he likes you then go for it,if not then say it,but don't sound like a desperate guy.

  
 
Unread postPosted: 17th April, 2012, 8:54 am 
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He's a gymnast & is flamboyant. He will totally be cool with gay people.
Therefore, you're all "I think I'm gay" then he's all "I totally feel the same way" to which you suggest you become closer and it all goes well.
That works in my warped imagination, but in real lfe... at least tell him you are.
See how he reacts.

  
 
Unread postPosted: 17th April, 2012, 9:22 am 
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WaterFall wrote:
Tell him. Say that its okay if he doesn't feel the same way and that you'd still like to be his friend. Honesty is the best policy


That^^

  
 
Unread postPosted: 17th April, 2012, 10:34 am 
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Only tell him if you think it will help you/you feel it's something you need to do. Don't go into it hoping he'll reciprocate, because chances are, he won't. You might be right about him, but if you go in with that hope, the odds are stacked against you, especially without any real evidence of his homosexuality.
That said, I think you should tell him! :thumbsup: as long as you dont set yourself up for disappointment.

  
 
Unread postPosted: 17th April, 2012, 10:37 am 
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WaterFall wrote:
Say that its okay if he doesn't feel the same way and that you'd still like to be his friend

also this.

  
 
Unread postPosted: 17th April, 2012, 3:12 pm 
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Yeah, I'm not going in hoping he likes me back I just feel like a dishonest friend. I'll keep you all posted on how it goes when I do tell him. I just dont know when to tell him I see him everyday and sit beside him in every class. Just scared :noes: and just to let everyone know he does know I'm not straight.

  
 
Unread postPosted: 18th April, 2012, 1:48 am 
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There's nothing here, what had to be said has been said and you're honestly being a coward faggot. Do something.

  
 
Unread postPosted: 18th April, 2012, 3:14 am 
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Just tell him. You won't know until you try.

  
 
Unread postPosted: 18th April, 2012, 12:13 pm 
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Tell him, if he doesn't feel the same then just cry for a few weeks until you realise how stupid the whole thing is and then move on to bigger and better things. If feelings are reciprocated then :) :heart:

  
 
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