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You can't say for sure, people are curious beings. Hug him again, catch his butt and try to rape him. If he doesn't reacts, then yes, he's gay...

I have never seen so many smilies in my life.

Well, you've never received a PM by szazomy.
Or recieved a sympathetic comment by Luap Wah, for that matter.

Add him on facebook and say "You asked me if I was gay. I was kind of wondering if you are?" or something in that style. Just work it into the conversation c: gl

You could try his seemingly effective tactic of just asking?

Why did you even say no? I'd interpret his asking as him wanting a reason to tell you that he is too.

Damn....you should of said you were!!! He wouldn't have asked you if he wasn't interested
Yeah speak to him again ask if he is then say you are

And I thought I'm using a lot of smilies when I'm excited... I feel so much better now

Two things:


SO. MANY. SMILIES.

and

Take a minute to reflect: you are effectively obsessing over yourself, if not a slightly younger version of yourself. Who cares if hes gay? It doesn't sound like he is, but just because he looks like you it doesn't mean he is the same person. It seems you're wishing he was the exact replica of you.

Just say something like 'haha, where did that come from? are you?'

.

He asked about your sexual orientation , so like everybody else here is saying, you have been given an invitation ( ) to ask for his. Gay, I know . Next time you see, don't you shy away from discovering what he is . Man I love hugs they make me go , and people that don't feel any need to ask before they wrap their big arms around you it really makes you feel safe (if I say so myself ). I hate it when it ends up being an undercover attempt at strangling me alive though ......could all of them HAVE BEEN? OH GOD WHY ME

Do I win ?

But their smilies are appropriately used for the most part, unlike here.

Yes.

I find this title like, a little rude. but then again I'm easily offended

I can't imagine being less inclined to admit gayness to some random strange kid who offered to hug me and phrases the question as "are you a fag?" ... kind of aggressive and intimidating, right??

People are so easily "offended" nowadays. They are in middle school.

well I was joking, but yeah it speaks to some issues with his attitude and approach. asking if a 12 year old is a "fag" is... indelicate at best. I don't care about the word, but not in reference to someone you barely know that you're just questioning/unsure of their sexuality

I've cut back on the smilies, it has to be said.
And I'm ashamed to admit I've cut back on the PM hours too. Gotta get into gear again

More! Faster! Hurry! Faster!!

I wouldn't actually ask him if he was a 'fag'. For me, it's no differnet than gay. I mean, I'm gay. I don't see any problems with refering to myself and my own kind that way.

That's me, at least