Is it weird to ask str8 guys for pics?

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Is it weird to ask str8 guys for pics?

Unread postby rkach » 1st August, 2017, 9:10 pm

I really like this one guy, he like my friend and I've known him for over a year. I want to ask him for pics or to trade. He knows I'm gay and that I like him. Should I ask or is that weird??
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Re: Is it weird to ask str8 guys for pics?

Unread postby MCarr » 1st August, 2017, 9:17 pm

It's a bit weird, even if he know that you're gay and you like him. He's still straight, although it doesn't mean he wouldn't want to do it. If you ask him and he says "no" that could affect your friendship. I would say don't do it, but it's entirely up to you...
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Re: Is it weird to ask str8 guys for pics?

Unread postby Anonymous Boy » 1st August, 2017, 9:24 pm

It seems too risky to me... it'd be pushing your luck. It's great that he's cool with you not only being gay but also liking him (from the sound of it), but asking him for pics could make him think you're taking this in the wrong direction. It could cause him to distance himself from you. If he's straight, he just wants to be friends.
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Unread postby Pity » 1st August, 2017, 9:45 pm

The others here pretty much summed up my thoughts. Asking for nudes is risky by itself and there is no reason that I would personally risk a good relationship, especially if he was straight.
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Re: Is it weird to ask str8 guys for pics?

Unread postby c70 » 1st August, 2017, 10:15 pm

I would advise against asking him. I know there is probably a temptation there (especially if you are really attracted to him) but its not worth potentially risking your friendship or creating gaps in it. It's great if he knows you like him and he is cool with that. But you don't want to give him the wrong idea.
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Re: Is it weird to ask str8 guys for pics?

Unread postby Dessy » 2nd August, 2017, 5:10 pm

I mean, generally you should avoid trying to hit up straight dudes. Especially if they know you're gay.
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Re: Is it weird to ask str8 guys for pics?

Unread postby Littlenorthernboy » 2nd August, 2017, 5:19 pm

I would say it aint worth it. Unless they have said that they will send u, and even then be prepared to turn it into a joke regardless.
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Re: Is it weird to ask str8 guys for pics?

Unread postby Unseasoned Chicken » 3rd August, 2017, 4:25 am

Conversely, how would you feel if a heterosexual girl who you've told you're gay asks you for nudes?
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Re: Is it weird to ask str8 guys for pics?

Unread postby rkach » 4th August, 2017, 10:33 pm

Ethán wrote:Conversely, how would you feel if a heterosexual girl who you've told you're gay asks you for nudes?

TBH I probably would have been flattered and sent them :rofl2:
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Re: Is it weird to ask str8 guys for pics?

Unread postby JonathanT88 » 5th August, 2017, 4:27 am

It's weird.

Or, at the very least, he'll think it is.
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Re: Is it weird to ask str8 guys for pics?

Unread postby Ubiquitous » 5th August, 2017, 5:32 am

I'd say it's too creepy :)
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Re: Is it weird to ask str8 guys for pics?

Unread postby CheeseSlice » 5th August, 2017, 4:37 pm

Don't. You're gay and he's not.
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Re: Is it weird to ask str8 guys for pics?

Unread postby byter11 » 5th August, 2017, 8:13 pm

Next topic from rkach:

"Is it weird that my str8 friend won't talk to me any more?"
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