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Unread postPosted: 7th August, 2014, 6:17 pm 
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I actually went on this site to post a question of this topic and I'm so glad I found this! Brilliant post!


  
 
Unread postPosted: 13th September, 2014, 10:53 am 
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That was great :) I actually did exactly all those things with my crush and had the same thoughts and worries. I still haven't got to step 3 though :( The thing is, I know that he's bi too (he's open about it) but he hasn't responded to any of my hints of me liking him and he's actually pushing me away now. At first, after I'd told him about my sexuality, I wanted to give it time before I told him that I like him and I couldn't bear the thought of losing him as a friend. But now he barely even speaks to me. So, I'm torn. Do I tell him anyway since I've got nothing to lose now? Or do I just accept the 95% chance that he doesn't like me? Surely life's about having no regrets, right...?


  
 
Unread postPosted: 28th September, 2014, 5:28 pm 
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I'm into more femmy type guys so most of the time they're not straight, bulky straight guys aren't my thing.


  
 
Unread postPosted: 6th February, 2015, 8:26 pm 
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Omg thank you, Eryx! :D


  
 
Unread postPosted: 7th April, 2015, 12:03 pm 
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I do agree with whoever said try to get over him although I am lacking in experience.
I myself have found a few methods work well for me, it's called a word trigger.
What you do is associate a particular word with that person, in my case "let there be fire" (cheesy I know please excuse it)
Then you relate something to that word such as either something that turns you off such as stepping in dog poo, or a specific action (in my case my blood boiling all the hormones out of my blood stopping the feeling)
Whenever you see him or her, utter or think the word and the action related to it and it should work providing you want it to.

^^^ the above works for me at the very least, please let me know whether or not it works for you guys as I may have just posted something pointless.

Cheers.


  
 
Unread postPosted: 7th April, 2015, 11:38 pm 
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I always assumed the gold standard was of knowing was

Do you have to ask? --> If yes, he's usually either straight or closeted AKA somewhat unattainable.


  
 
Unread postPosted: 13th April, 2015, 2:26 am 
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This is great topic! Thanks.


  
 
Unread postPosted: 24th June, 2015, 11:07 pm 
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This is a good method,agree with this view"Get used to the new dynamic between you and this kid. Things aren't going to be the same, even if the changes are minimal. Get a feeling of how differently he treats you now that he knows you like cock, and that will tell you a lot about what your chances are."


  
 
Unread postPosted: 24th June, 2015, 11:36 pm 
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Haha, funny story on central Australia camp I found out that my straight crush was a manipulative little douche. He turned out to be bi but he thought he could balance multiple people on his plate single handedly-he was trying to keep his options open. Then in my mind I was like nope, he won't have me wrapped around his little finger anymore.. :) (okay I'm a little upset...) Oh well plenty of fish in the sea.


  
 
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