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Indigoflow
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 Posted: 16th February, 2012, 4:49 pm |
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well by the title I guess its kinda obvious here...I need advice on this im in a very serious online relationship hes even talked to me about proposing...but He lives 7 states away and hes afraid of telling his mom so we could meet so I wouldent be able to meet him for about 3-4 years...and I learned today that one of my long time crushes came out as a homosexual and admitted that he had a girlfriend because he was trying to cover up his sexuality from his parents and now that hes out he admitted to me that he has a crush on me. So what should I do?
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Cobalt
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Posted: 16th February, 2012, 4:51 pm |
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In an online relationship and you wouldn't be able to meet for 3-4 years?
...yeah not worth it.
Go for the irl crush. I wouldn't even bother getting into an online relationship if I knew we wouldn't be able to meet for that long. It's a pointless waste of time and energy and would only leave you heartbroken when it doesn't work out.
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KrisCross
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Posted: 16th February, 2012, 4:52 pm |
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Cobalt wrote: In an online relationship and you wouldn't be able to meet for 3-4 years?
...yeah not worth it.
Go for the irl crush. I wouldn't even bother getting into an online relationship if I knew we wouldn't be able to meet for that long. It's a pointless waste of time and energy and would only leave you heartbroken when it doesn't work out. This. I wouldn't have to think very long about it.
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That Canadian Guy
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Posted: 16th February, 2012, 4:53 pm |
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If he won't tell his mother so he can see someone he supposedly loves and wants to propose to, that should be a big hint...
In my opinion he either doesn't love you as much as he claims or he's a coward, either way, dump him.
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Mephisto
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Posted: 16th February, 2012, 4:54 pm |
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Quote: hes afraid of telling his mom so we could meet
...yeah, go with the IRL dude. Seriously. Really seriously. Proposing? Sorry, that's pretty weird if you've never even met him.  Besides, you'll get touching, kissing, and sex this way.
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Mephisto
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Posted: 16th February, 2012, 4:54 pm |
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Quote: hes afraid of telling his mom so we could meet
...yeah, go with the IRL dude. Seriously. Really seriously. Proposing? Sorry, that's pretty weird if you've never even met him. Besides, you'll get touching, kissing, and sex this way.
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gaytheatrenerd
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Posted: 16th February, 2012, 6:18 pm |
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Real life person. As hot as sexy webcam sessions are, nothing beats just being around your bf (as well as real sex  )
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Morthos
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Posted: 16th February, 2012, 6:21 pm |
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IRL, obviously. Even if it doesn't work out, it'll be worth the experience and risk.
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Xade
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Posted: 16th February, 2012, 6:34 pm |
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Real life person. 3-4 years is far too much of your young life to give up, even if you didn't have this RL guy. Just let your e-boyfriend down gently. Tell him that you both deserve better than being limited by a relationship that spans 7 states for 4 years.
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Marbles
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Posted: 16th February, 2012, 6:38 pm |
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I don't believe you can have an actual relationship over the internet. It's rather sad and pathetic really.  IRL obvvvvvv.
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Paragon
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Posted: 16th February, 2012, 7:03 pm |
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lol, listen to these people. Some of them have real experience on the matter.
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TrueVictory
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Posted: 16th February, 2012, 7:36 pm |
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Who do you want more? If you can deal with waiting that long go for it but personally I couldn't do it.
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The Hierophant
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Posted: 16th February, 2012, 10:26 pm |
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WelshHomosexual
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Posted: 17th February, 2012, 12:43 pm |
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You could try going out with both... just for a while, to see how it goes on both sides.
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Cobalt
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Posted: 17th February, 2012, 12:51 pm |
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St.Davey wrote: lol, listen to these people. Some of them have real experience on the matter. 
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Posted: 17th February, 2012, 1:44 pm |
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You're 16. Proposing is out of the question. He lives seven states away. You aren't dating. I don't understand what the hangup is.
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Rossay
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Posted: 17th February, 2012, 2:58 pm |
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Cobalt wrote: I wouldn't even bother getting into an online relationship if I knew we wouldn't be able to meet for that long. It's a pointless waste of time and energy and would only leave you heartbroken when it doesn't work out. Pretty much this.
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Codeax
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Posted: 17th February, 2012, 3:14 pm |
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The Hierophant wrote: The fact that you even needed to post this seems a little strange to me.
Obviously, get rid of the online boyfriend. Anyone who is talking about proposing to someone they've never even met is too clingy, anyway.
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Simon
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Posted: 17th February, 2012, 3:33 pm |
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I'm not sure I understand why proposing is so silly. Why, my online boyfriend and I propose to each other five times a week.
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Xade
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Posted: 17th February, 2012, 3:47 pm |
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Simon wrote: I'm not sure I understand why proposing is so silly. Why, my online boyfriend and I propose to each other five times a week.  Who don't you propose to 5 times a week? You're going to turn this thread into another Simonfest.
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