i like my friend Josh, but he stilll likes his ex boyfriend. and wants him back. Josh is the one broke up with the guy cuz Josh was not ready for a long distance relationship. Josh now can do that, but he can not find his ex.. And Im in love with Josh. he knows i do, but both of us desinded to be JUST friends. I want Josh to find his ex cuz it will make him happy. even though i still in love with him.. and then he did and.... they got back together..... but im still in love with Josh T_T

Either always be there for him or wait to see if their relationship was a sham. You can test your love for each other that way.

I can understand, i'm in love with my "straight" friend. Its painful.

Give Josh some time to get over the loss of his boyfriend. Be there for him as a friend during what is probably a difficult time and hopefully you will become closer to him.

Maybe you can try to find someone else to make him jealous?

What's his name?

Do you know how many threads on here fail to clarify who 'him' or 'he' is, thus causing a lot of confusion? Seriously, shut the fuck up.

Josh will probably not get over him. they r back together >.< i guess i just have to wait for them to break up.... ill be there for him, as a friend. It is just SO annoying when Josh's bf is just....... u know what i mean if u liked somebody and they r dating someone else and u see them together being cute couple-like ness >.< drives me crazy!!! Josh r just friends for now.... Y are u telling me to shut up, 997214?

He's not telling you to shut up, he's telling Horace to shut up. If this wasn't an online forum, I would suggest pronouns, but since every other part of that posting was lacking in grammar and style, it is not a big issue.

oks. i gets it. i still do not know how to deal with this. I REALLY love Josh alot

Ah! I keep seeing the name of my ex-crush.
Just let Josh be happy and maybe you can be happy once you move on and find someone for yourself.

sorry D: it is his name though..
i can not find anyone. i just am not.. idk. People r just not into me.

Yeah, well just give it time. In the mean time just think about your friendship with him. You wouldn't want to ruin that, would you?

Don't be defeatist. Things take time.

:/ i have tryed to be.. boyfriend material, but nobody is interested

Just don't worry about dating for now. In time it will come.

:/ i just do not think im bf material.. cuz nobody ever shows interest

Let me be honest with you. The whole emo thing has got to end. No one is going to want to be with someone who can't even satisfy themself.

He has a boyfriend.

Grow a pair and get over it.

How old are you anywho?

ok. ill try (again) to convince myself that im bf material.

im 18

Stop being such a fucking emo. There's no such thing as 'boyfriend material,' some people like certain types of people, and maybe, if you spent less time wallowing in your own misery, people would think you'd make a good boyfriend and flirt with you.

Don't complain about not having a boyfriend until you're out, proactive about meeting people, and have a decent amount of gay friends who are single anyway. Until then, you simply don't have a boyfriend because people aren't freaking PSYCHIC.

Of course, feel free to complain in a lighthearted whingey way, but don't get emo about it.

Thank you!

I wasn't going to give that rant, but then he had to make a whiney bitch of a comment didn't he?

ill try to do better, but i alwways mess up. ill try anyways. i got plenty of bi friends. just friends, so i know plenty of non-str8 people. i had better confidence until the Drew breakup. the second relationship. my first high school one. senior year. first person to show SOME interest. he was a jerk though. but u r right, i need to keep trying. I just need to get over my romantac love of my friend

Yes o-o

tbh this is annoyingly common. Too many gay guys don't get any in high school and as a result are super clingy in any relationship that does come around in it.

Wait till college, take some time off to decide what kind of person you are, and enter college being confident about it, nothing is better than that.

yep. College will be better.

cute pic btw

Hehe, it's because I don't like having a photo of myself, and also because people's continued impression of you is based largely on your avatar.

lol well i think it is cute

i might ask my other friend out. CJ..

See, first you were GOING ON how you're in love with Josh, now you've flipped and are fine to settle for any dick attached to a boy.

I'm near certain we'll get another thread where you baww about how CJ rejected you or how he accepted you but he's a jerk. THINK BEFORE YOU ACT