holding hand in public

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Re: holding hand in public

Unread postby Amadeus » 11th January, 2018, 10:54 pm

aldwych wrote:
Amadeus wrote:I do it sometimes (holding hand with my same sex partner).
Not as I'm embarrassed, but I don't like dragging attention to me (or my ). So we don't do it so often.


Which city do you live in?

Sweden.
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Re: holding hand in public

Unread postby WinterIsHere » 12th January, 2018, 9:57 am

I think it could be a really affectionate gesture as long as it doesn't make anyone involved uncomfortable.

My best friend and I hold hands from time to time in public because we have done so since we can remember. Although I have the biggest crush on him we are (for now) just friends. Growing up in a small town, people give us weird looks ever so often but they know us and mostly just think it's weirdly touchy behavior. Luckily, no one has called us out on it or judged us for it, though.

To me, it's a gesture of closeness or dedication and not necessarily a sexual or romantic thing.
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Re: holding hand in public

Unread postby aldwych » 16th January, 2018, 4:59 am

WinterIsHere wrote:I think it could be a really affectionate gesture as long as it doesn't make anyone involved uncomfortable.

My best friend and I hold hands from time to time in public because we have done so since we can remember. Although I have the biggest crush on him we are (for now) just friends. Growing up in a small town, people give us weird looks ever so often but they know us and mostly just think it's weirdly touchy behavior. Luckily, no one has called us out on it or judged us for it, though.

To me, it's a gesture of closeness or dedication and not necessarily a sexual or romantic thing.


Your best friend is gay or straight? If he is straight, does he know you are gay?
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Re: holding hand in public

Unread postby TheHalfrican » 16th January, 2018, 3:01 pm

My hands are too warm for that. I've tried and it its just really uncomfortable for all parties involved. :lol: But I do love the similar one-armed link. Its so adorable and I'm always the one holding the other person's arm and it just feels like you fit, you know?
Also you get to steal grabs at their muscles, but that's off the record. :devil:
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Re: holding hand in public

Unread postby WinterIsHere » 17th January, 2018, 12:21 am

aldwych wrote:
WinterIsHere wrote:I think it could be a really affectionate gesture as long as it doesn't make anyone involved uncomfortable.

My best friend and I hold hands from time to time in public because we have done so since we can remember. Although I have the biggest crush on him we are (for now) just friends. Growing up in a small town, people give us weird looks ever so often but they know us and mostly just think it's weirdly touchy behavior. Luckily, no one has called us out on it or judged us for it, though.

To me, it's a gesture of closeness or dedication and not necessarily a sexual or romantic thing.


Your best friend is gay or straight? If he is straight, does he know you are gay?



He is straight-ish. He is currently seeing a girl but we are unnaturally (or rather unusually and fortunately) close.
He is the reason I am pretty sure I am into guys rather than girls and I really care for him.

I never explicitly told him but we have had frequent close encounters. Like holding hands, an adorable kiss on the cheek, or cuddling is nothing unusual for us. One time we casually hooked up but didn't go all the way. He doesn't want to talk about it, though.

Given all this, I am sure he knows :D
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