How to figure out if you like gay sex?

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How to figure out if you like gay sex?

Unread postby Nudistguy » 19th August, 2017, 5:42 am

I've never done stuff with guys before. Fooled around with some girls and liked it but I'm starting to think about guys. Was wondering if there is any way I would know I would like it without being with another guy. Is there a way to do that? And would there be a way that no one could know? I don't want my dad finding out about it. We have been open about everything but never told him I have thought about it. Any help would be apreciated.
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Re: How to figure out if you like gay sex?

Unread postby boiii » 19th August, 2017, 5:45 am

I watched gay porn when I was wondering if I was gay.
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Re: How to figure out if you like gay sex?

Unread postby Kaspar » 19th August, 2017, 6:26 am

boiii wrote:I watched gay porn when I was wondering if I was gay.



^ Well yeah, this can be a good indicator. Usually straight people are either grossed out when they watch gay porn or highly uncomfortable. If you subconsciously like it, then it might be a good sign.
Anyway, have you ever had any crush on a boy or feelings of towards them?
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Re: How to figure out if you like gay sex?

Unread postby Pity » 19th August, 2017, 10:29 am

If you feel comfortable sticking your penis up a guy’s butt or letting a guy stick his up yours, then that is a pretty solid indicator of whether or not you like gay sex.

Like Boiii said, watch some porn! I know findind out your sexuality can be confusing. Good luck :)
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Re: How to figure out if you like gay sex?

Unread postby Nudistguy » 20th August, 2017, 4:57 am

I have watched some gay porn and I kinda like some of them. Mostly guys jacking off. There was some guys putting dicks up their butts that got me hard. I just don't know if would like it. Like I have thought about using a finger but it just scares me if I'm going to hurt myself or something bad happening. And maybe someone would find out I did it too. I really don't want my dad to know.
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Re: How to figure out if you like gay sex?

Unread postby Kaspar » 20th August, 2017, 7:15 am

Nudistguy wrote:I have watched some gay porn and I kinda like some of them. Mostly guys jacking off. There was some guys putting dicks up their butts that got me hard. I just don't know if would like it. Like I have thought about using a finger but it just scares me if I'm going to hurt myself or something bad happening. And maybe someone would find out I did it too. I really don't want my dad to know.

It's ok to try stuff you know! And doing it gently and slowly basically makes it veeeeery hard to hurt yourself.
The concerns about your dad are reasonable, it is very often the case with gay people who are not out yet. If you feel like he would not approve of it - just do not share it with him now. Realising you're gay =/= having to come out to everyone :)
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Re: How to figure out if you like gay sex?

Unread postby Scorpius X-1 » 20th August, 2017, 9:18 am

Pity wrote:If you feel comfortable sticking your penis up a guy’s butt or letting a guy stick his up yours, then that is a pretty solid indicator of whether or not you like gay sex.

Like Boiii said, watch some porn! I know findind out your sexuality can be confusing. Good luck :)

Don't forget desires for blowjobs. They should be factored in too. If you like sucking cock, you're probably gay or bi.
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Re: How to figure out if you like gay sex?

Unread postby Scorpius X-1 » 20th August, 2017, 9:22 am

Nudistguy wrote:I have watched some gay porn and I kinda like some of them. Mostly guys jacking off. There was some guys putting dicks up their butts that got me hard. I just don't know if would like it. Like I have thought about using a finger but it just scares me if I'm going to hurt myself or something bad happening. And maybe someone would find out I did it too. I really don't want my dad to know.


Pleasure yourself in the bathroom if you don't want your dad to know, like I do. I notice also that my anus is more relaxed after a shower, too, and that's important since I don't use lube.

And a finger hasn't hurt me ever.
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Re: How to figure out if you like gay sex?

Unread postby boiii » 20th August, 2017, 9:52 am

Scorpius X-1 wrote:I notice also that my anus is more relaxed after a shower


I usually do it during one cause it's easy to wash it afterwards.
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Re: How to figure out if you like gay sex?

Unread postby Nudistguy » 20th August, 2017, 3:29 pm

Thanks for all the information. I decided to go ahead and try doing some stuff tonight when I'm in the shower. I am just really curious wether I will like it or not.
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Re: How to figure out if you like gay sex?

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Re: How to figure out if you like gay sex?

Unread postby Nudistguy » 20th August, 2017, 9:31 pm

Planning on giving it a try tonight
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