Do you introduce your boyfriend to your friends?(str guys)

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Do you introduce your boyfriend to your friends?(str guys)

Unread postby aldwych » 15th July, 2017, 5:49 pm

I am asking the question to gay males. Do you introduce your boyfriend to your straight guy friends? Do you show affection to your boyfriend when you are with your straight guy friends?
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Re: Do you introduce your boyfriend to your friends?(str guys)

Unread postby Dessy » 15th July, 2017, 5:51 pm

Uh sure if I hang out around them a lot. Not if they would be weird about it, though.
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Re: Do you introduce your boyfriend to your friends?(str guys)

Unread postby Kaspar » 15th July, 2017, 8:14 pm

What boyfriend? :dunno: :P

I don't have one as of right now, but if I had, I think I would be comfortable with introducing him and being casual with him around my friends. They are mostly tolerant and I'm out to them, so that would be no problem, they wouldn't care.
HOWEVER, I would not show affection for him in public. I live in a place where being openly gay in some parts of the town on the wrong time, might get you killed basically :P Aaaand Im not keen on being stabbed, no thanks.
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Re: Do you introduce your boyfriend to your friends?(str guys)

Unread postby Liam » 16th July, 2017, 10:02 am

Yea I did and I definitely would, my guy friends always want to meet whoever I'm seeing, and they're always super chill about it.
It definitely depends on who your friends are tho, if they're cool with you being gay I'd assume they'd be cool with meeting your significant other. And with affection, I only show as much as affection as I'd feel comfortable with my friends showing with their girlfriends. PDA can be super uncomfortable so the most I ever do would be holding hands or stealing a quick kiss preferably if no one was looking.
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Unread postby Pity » 16th July, 2017, 3:00 pm

A boyfriend?

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Haha, but yeah, I probably would introduce a male significant other because, if we are friends, there is a good chance that they would already be supportive enough to be comfortable around a couple. However, I do think making out and being intimate in public makes everyone uncomfortable no matter the sexual orientation.
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Re: Do you introduce your boyfriend to your friends?(str guys)

Unread postby Abdeltyf » 16th July, 2017, 3:49 pm

Hi!
Well it depends on your friends, just like what Liam said. You don't want to get your boyfriend to hang out with the guy who accepts you're gay just because you know him from kindergarten or something. Also, you should ask your boyfriend carefully first; there are a lot of inside jokes between straight guys and i don't know yours but your boyfriend may or may not get really uneasy or "left out". Maybe he doesn't enjoy hanging out with any straight guy? Try to show just enough affection. Just be yourself and make sure you all have a great time!
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Re: Do you introduce your boyfriend to your friends?(str guys)

Unread postby c70 » 17th July, 2017, 9:50 pm

Well, if I had one, It would depend a lot on if he wanted to be introduced. I'm sure my friends would be totally cool with it, but I wouldn't want to make him uncomfortable. I think hand holding, hugging, and quick kissing is okay to show in public, but making out in front of everyone would be awkward for any couple in general, never mind their orientation.
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Re: Do you introduce your boyfriend to your friends?(str guys)

Unread postby totally_not_xavier » 30th August, 2017, 11:21 am

nope seing i dont have one ...pathetic i know
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Re: Do you introduce your boyfriend to your friends?(str guys)

Unread postby Wayde » 30th August, 2017, 1:43 pm

Trying to find said boyfriend like:
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In all seriousness, I don't really have any guy friends. I know like maybe one guy I talk to regulalry, haha. My best friend is a girl, as are all the other members of the loose friend-group that I talk to. I always related more to friendships with girls I guess, and haven't had a good guy friend in years since the last one moved across the country :dunno:
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Unread postby Sokol » 30th August, 2017, 1:58 pm

I do.
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