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I NEED SOME URGENT ADVICE

Unread postby Johnnylabello » 18th March, 2017, 6:33 pm

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Re: I NEED SOME URGENT ADVICE

Unread postby Scherzy » 18th March, 2017, 6:46 pm

I think you've got a fair solution already - keep it like it is. You're 15, no rush. If y'all feel that way about each other, just keep the affection going, and eventually you'll start getting answers. There's really no concrete tactic to it :P
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Re: I NEED SOME URGENT ADVICE

Unread postby Johnnylabello » 18th March, 2017, 7:45 pm

Okay thanks so much! But do you think this is all in my head or should I at least talk to him about it?
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Re: I NEED SOME URGENT ADVICE

Unread postby Dua Lipa » 18th March, 2017, 7:49 pm

Johnnylabello wrote:Okay thanks so much! But do you think this is all in my head or should I at least talk to him about it?

Wanting know whether our crush is gay aswell is one of the most common issues gay guys deal with and unfortunately pretty much the only way to definitively know is to ask! Now it's up to you to decide whether it's going to be beneficial to you or will it jeapordize this very good friendship.
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Re: I NEED SOME URGENT ADVICE

Unread postby Kaspar » 18th March, 2017, 8:01 pm

You have to remember that the fact you rubbed your feet a few times doesn't necessarily mean he is into you. You both have a lot of time though, it doesn't look like you are going to stop meeting pretty frequently so that's a good thing :) What I would suggest for now is simply testing the waters by letting the things happen like before. One more thing, do you maintain any eye contact while doing the stuff? If not, trying to look at the person might tell you a lot. Good luck :)
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Re: I NEED SOME URGENT ADVICE

Unread postby Burns » 18th March, 2017, 9:37 pm

THEY ARE NEVER GAY
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Re: I NEED SOME URGENT ADVICE

Unread postby Dolly » 19th March, 2017, 12:29 am

He sounds gay. Go for it and ask him about it. Good luck :)
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Re: I NEED SOME URGENT ADVICE

Unread postby George » 19th March, 2017, 4:55 am

Give it time, and then tell him about how you feel. But be ready that he might not feel the same, but it could be unlikely. As Scherzy said, you're 15 - theres no need to rush this :P
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Re: I NEED SOME URGENT ADVICE

Unread postby Mr878 » 23rd March, 2017, 3:33 pm

Go for it. Just asking if hes gay too wont hurt. Good luck. If he is straight. mabey wait for a while, keep the contact and he might change his mind :awesome: :awesome: :awesome:
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Re: I NEED SOME URGENT ADVICE

Unread postby Eu » 23rd March, 2017, 4:10 pm

Try to get alone with him
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Re: I NEED SOME URGENT ADVICE

Unread postby Cxurujeto » 23rd March, 2017, 4:47 pm

Based on the information you provided about how you guys never talk about anything remotely sexual or romantic in nature, he probably would be uncomfortable talking about it. Being that you are 15 and he is, I assume, near that age, even if he is gay there is no guarantee he knows. And if he does, he might not accept it in himself. So he is probably discovering his feelings. That being said, I suggest keeping it exactly as it has been lately. If it is meant to be more, things will escalate gradually, which is for the best because you two are still relatively young. I wish you good look, and I hope you update us on any details. It sounds to me like there is a possibility of it remaining in your favor. :thumbsup: :keke:
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