Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

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Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby Kaydence18 » 13th March, 2017, 6:15 pm

I mean like I know what it is. But does it just have to do with anal sex? Like what about with oral sex etc??? Because like generally I get more intense O's when I bottom than I do when I top. But I really really like blow jobs. I like sucking another guy too. But I prefer to be on top in that sense. Generally I'm verse but I like anal more than topping. Its not the worst thing it just takes forever for me to O with being on top. I'm just curious does being on top include like oral sex? Etc? Curious because I said I was a bottom once and then the guy didnt know I liked being on top in some cases.
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Re: Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby JonathanT88 » 13th March, 2017, 6:29 pm

I've always assumed 'bottom' referred strictly to anal sex. Also, I think people just call themselves 'bottoms' for convenience if this is what they prefer to do the majority of the time, though it's by no means binding.
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Re: Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby Pity » 13th March, 2017, 7:41 pm

I would use it only to describe positions in anal sex, as it should be. People often use "bottom" to say that they are "submissive," which is where the confusion comes into play; I would say the submissive one is the person performing the oral sex.
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Re: Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby Ω » 13th March, 2017, 9:38 pm

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Re: Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby muddylegs » 14th March, 2017, 5:13 pm

Ω wrote:Scottnesss

:lol: :werd:

OT, Bottom is one who takes it up the ass :eli:
If you're submissive during anal but prefer to be dominant during other stuff, I suppose that'd be switch, rather than vers.
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Re: Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby scottnesss » 14th March, 2017, 5:27 pm

Ω wrote:Scottnesss


Lowkey was waiting for this smh. :wasteland:
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Re: Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby lilryan » 15th March, 2017, 4:41 am

I would agree that I think it only applies to anal... anything further than that and anything goes really. Besides, if you're talking purely mechanical you're unlikely to be 'on the bottom' when giving oral... but then you might not do the classic anal position either. Severely flawed gay jargon I guess!
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Re: Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby scottnesss » 15th March, 2017, 8:31 am

Ask the internet dear friend, and you will always get to the "bottom" of your question:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Top,_bottom_and_versatile
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Re: Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby TheBrunswickian » 15th March, 2017, 8:41 am

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Unread postby TheBrunswickian » 15th March, 2017, 8:42 am

TheBrunswickian wrote:The definition is Scott

Oh I see Ethan has made this joke already... well...
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Re: Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby Dessy » 15th March, 2017, 11:48 am

Bottoming commonly refers to taking dicks during anal sex. However there has been some usage of like "oral top"/"oral bottom" to describe receiving and giving respectively. But people don't usually conflate oral sex with what you do during anal. In my experience most guys would both suck and receive.
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Re: Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby Sturgis » 16th March, 2017, 12:20 am

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Re: Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby Vortex » 16th March, 2017, 10:28 am

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Re: Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby Sturgis » 16th March, 2017, 4:54 pm

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Re: Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby Vortex » 17th March, 2017, 4:36 pm

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Re: Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby Pity » 17th March, 2017, 5:25 pm

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Re: Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby CaseyD » 19th March, 2017, 3:30 am

I guess technically it refers to anal, but to me, it apples to everything.
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Re: Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby NathanD3V » 29th March, 2017, 8:14 am

In British English, "bottom" means ass, so I guess you could say that the technical definition of a bottom is someone who takes it up the bottom.

Oral's a pretty mutual thing though, so I think if you wanted to have a top and bottom label for that it would be based on dominance rather than the role.
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Re: Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby Dr. Spears » 29th March, 2017, 3:55 pm

Without being rude or a twat but why do you care that much about it? Obviously, curiosity captivates us but still.
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Re: Technically what is the definition of a bottom?

Unread postby TheBrunswickian » 29th March, 2017, 9:35 pm

Pity wrote:Jacketh

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