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Unread postby themaster154 » 13th March, 2017, 12:59 pm

dose sexual orientation change and dose it change overnight
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Re: clarify

Unread postby Dessy » 13th March, 2017, 1:03 pm

No. Although you can still be trying to figure out your sexual orientation (to which people wrongly interpret as a change).
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Re: clarify

Unread postby Pity » 13th March, 2017, 1:06 pm

Sexual orientation is fluid and can change but not because one chooses to. For example, I thought I was straight and I even had crushes on girls, but I have since realized I only thought they were attractive and did not have real feelings for them.

No, it does not change overnight. One's sexual orientation begins presenting itself around the age of puberty and that may be a time of confusion for many.
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Re: clarify

Unread postby themaster154 » 13th March, 2017, 1:11 pm

oh well i always liked huys first knew at 13 and now im 17 and scared its going to change
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Re: clarify

Unread postby Dessy » 13th March, 2017, 1:21 pm

themaster154 wrote:oh well i always liked huys first knew at 13 and now im 17 and scared its going to change


Why? If you known you liked guys for that long, I don't think you have anything to worry about.
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Re: clarify

Unread postby themaster154 » 13th March, 2017, 1:27 pm

im having these thoguths in my head though
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Re: clarify

Unread postby Anonymous Boy » 13th March, 2017, 1:32 pm

themaster154 wrote:im having these thoguths in my head though

Like, thoughts about girls?

It does sometimes happen that people discover that they're bisexual to some extent later in life, but I'm not sure that qualifies as a change. It seems more like it's a part of them that hadn't strongly expressed itself before.
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Unread postby themaster154 » 13th March, 2017, 1:39 pm

liek the thoguths arnt sexuall or anything like that its more omg what id i change and like girls and i become straight and omg lesbians and things like that an
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Unread postby George » 13th March, 2017, 1:42 pm

Is it possible that you're discovering you're bisexual? Interest in both girls and boys is not mutually exclusive :P
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Unread postby Dessy » 13th March, 2017, 1:42 pm

themaster154 wrote:liek the thoguths arnt sexuall or anything like that its more omg what id i change and like girls and i become straight and omg lesbians and things like that an


Yeah sounds like you're just overthinking tbh.
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Re: clarify

Unread postby themaster154 » 13th March, 2017, 1:47 pm

i dont have an intrest in girls
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Re: clarify

Unread postby themaster154 » 13th March, 2017, 2:09 pm

whats the issue here?
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Re: clarify

Unread postby Ω » 13th March, 2017, 9:41 pm

There's no issue, if you don't have interest in girls and like guys you're likely to be gay. Obviously you're having issues dealing with that which is normal it just takes time.
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