Is it okay to hook up with older guys when you're younger ?

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Is it okay to hook up with older guys when you're younger ?

Unread postby trunate14 » 1st February, 2017, 10:07 pm

So I'm 16 and I had sex with a 20 year old guy who is in college & I'm a sophomore. I enjoyed it a lot he was very fit and cute & I liked getting pounded. You guys think it's okay I consented to it and liked it
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Re: Is it okay to hook up with older guys when you're younger ?

Unread postby Pity » 1st February, 2017, 10:12 pm

Whether it's okay for you is irrelevant, but I do hope you are the legal age in your state. It is unfair if you lied to him about your age; having sex with a minor is a serious felony. Good luck and be safe ;)
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Re: Is it okay to hook up with older guys when you're younger ?

Unread postby trunate14 » 1st February, 2017, 10:13 pm

Pity wrote:Whether it's okay for you is irrelevant, but I do hope you are the legal age in your state. It is unfair if you lied to him about your age; having sex with a minor is a serious felony. Good luck and be safe ;)

I didn't lie we both knew our ages
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Re: Is it okay to hook up with older guys when you're younger ?

Unread postby Rose » 1st February, 2017, 10:15 pm

Hey doll, it's all good. If ya think about it your 16. You can, in most countries start to drive. Some drink alcohol, and even buy cigarettes. They can vote too. Now think about it, if you can vote on a politician and consent to that. You can consent to sex. Your good.

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Unread postby Hohenidoom » 1st February, 2017, 10:20 pm

If you're within the law it's okay, stay safe and have fun. However even if you *think* you're able to consent, the law is there for a reason.

You wouldn't break the law other times, so don't use sex as an excuse to do so.
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Re: Is it okay to hook up with older guys when you're younger ?

Unread postby scottnesss » 2nd February, 2017, 6:11 am

As the others have said, whether it is right or wrong or not is not an issue for individual judgement. If consent was given on both sides and the law surrounding the Age of Consent in your State/Country was not broken, then it is perfectly okay.

Stay safe, remember to never feel pressured, and wrap it up!
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Re: Is it okay to hook up with older guys when you're younger ?

Unread postby Bourdain » 2nd February, 2017, 9:52 am

trunate14 wrote:So I'm 16 and I had sex with a 20 year old guy

There's not a lot of cultural differences between a 16 and a 20 year old so honestly a 4 year difference is fine.

I liked getting pounded.

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Re: Is it okay to hook up with older guys when you're younger ?

Unread postby Charlie » 2nd February, 2017, 10:47 am

Bourdain wrote:
trunate14 wrote:So I'm 16 and I had sex with a 20 year old guy

There's not a lot of cultural differences between a 16 and a 20 year old so honestly a 4 year difference is fine.



Depends on the people involved, but Id say there can be quite a big difference.

(But y'know if its legal and your fine then go ahead)
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Unread postby Collin924 » 2nd February, 2017, 10:34 pm

Call me archaic but I always like the half-your-age-plus-seven rule. Divide the older person's age by two and add seven to that. You get the "socially acceptable" minimum age.
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Re: Is it okay to hook up with older guys when you're younger ?

Unread postby George » 5th February, 2017, 4:51 am

Absolutely, as long as you're safe and honest, and are sure you know how to get out of it. I personally don't keep so much of an eye on the law, but do consider it because you could ruin someone's life :P
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Re: Is it okay to hook up with older guys when you're younger ?

Unread postby Massage1512 » 16th March, 2017, 2:14 pm

Damn lucky :) i wouldn't mind hooking up with a older guy.
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Re: Is it okay to hook up with older guys when you're younger ?

Unread postby CaseyD » 19th March, 2017, 3:41 am

Not if you're underage and he's over 18 it's not. I like dating older, but I didn't date an adult until I turned 18. Just don't.
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Re: Is it okay to hook up with older guys when you're younger ?

Unread postby Vortex » 20th March, 2017, 1:01 am

I used to do it all the time tbh.
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Re: Is it okay to hook up with older guys when you're younger ?

Unread postby Jimjam » 20th March, 2017, 7:37 am

Vortex wrote:I used to do it all the time tbh.


And look how you turned out. :oface:
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Re: Is it okay to hook up with older guys when you're younger ?

Unread postby Vortex » 20th March, 2017, 12:57 pm

Jimjam wrote:
Vortex wrote:I used to do it all the time tbh.


And look how you turned out. :oface:

This is a valid point for real.


Don't do it OP.
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Re: Is it okay to hook up with older guys when you're younger ?

Unread postby lilryan » 20th March, 2017, 2:24 pm

Keep it within the law... and what you're comfortable with of course!
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Re: Is it okay to hook up with older guys when you're younger ?

Unread postby harshharshiyer » 21st March, 2017, 8:59 am

I always think dating elder guys would be much better, given that they have experience and maybe mature in decisions related to the relationship. But I hope you practice it safe :nod:
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Re: Is it okay to hook up with older guys when you're younger ?

Unread postby Russell » 21st March, 2017, 11:59 am

End of the day, so long as it's legal/both parties are consenting, then you do you.
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