Finding sex "boring"

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Finding sex "boring"

Unread postby ItalianSexyBoy » 16th October, 2016, 12:04 pm

Yo guys, i'd like to know if what im writing happened also to you, cause this makes me feel bad, im pretty sad and im worried a lot about it. So the problem is basically that lately, since august i weirdly find sex "boring" for some reason, i fap just because im used to, i dont find the thing as crazy as before, something happened... so im pretty worried also because im not interested in looking for someone as before... i really dont find sex as crazy and needful for life as before... i want it back for fuck sake. Do you guys think that its probabily due to testosterone's production drop? Did this ever happened to you? Pls help me guys
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Re: Finding sex "boring"

Unread postby Volvic » 16th October, 2016, 1:32 pm

Probably caused by excessive masturbation. They're in the midst of researching/writing/publishing a shit ton of reports suggesting a link between excessive masturbation and E.D. More than a few BBC articles on this issue have contained interviews with idiots who suffer this and they've said that doing what their GPs advised worked as a 100% cure. Don't fap for 2-4 months. At all. By the end of that just seeing someone with a lolipop will get you hard.
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Re: Finding sex "boring"

Unread postby Stripy Tiger » 16th October, 2016, 1:59 pm

Because you've had too much of it. Obvious answer.
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Re: Finding sex "boring"

Unread postby ItalianSexyBoy » 16th October, 2016, 2:17 pm

I dont think its that, just cause first of august i was fapping once per day or once per 2-3 days, the frequence remaind the same ALWAYS. I know, if i dont fap for 2 or 4 months its gonna come a crazy want sex, but its gonna pass after the masturbation. I can just remember that i in those days when the want sex dropped, i was fapping with the same frequence BUT i was thinking about sex all the day cause i was in holiday away from my pc.
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Re: Finding sex "boring"

Unread postby Stripy Tiger » 16th October, 2016, 2:21 pm

ItalianSexyBoy wrote:I dont think its that, just cause first of august i was fapping once per day or once per 2-3 days, the frequence remaind the same ALWAYS. I know, if i dont fap for 2 or 4 months its gonna come a crazy want sex, but its gonna pass after the masturbation. I can just remember that i in those days when the want sex dropped, i was fapping with the same frequence BUT i was thinking about sex all the day cause i was in holiday away from my pc.

Yep, once per day will do that to ya.
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Re: Finding sex "boring"

Unread postby ItalianSexyBoy » 16th October, 2016, 2:29 pm

Well, nothing ever changed about want sex, though i was fapping once per day. Can it be then caused of thinking all the day about sex (not fapping)?
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Re: Finding sex "boring"

Unread postby ForeverFem » 24th November, 2016, 6:17 pm

If my BF gives me oral first, I lose interest in sex as you'd expect. In that case we just go into the spoons position and I'll watch TV or use my phone while he does his thing.

We're like a very modern old couple :).

Just stop masturbating for a while as others have said. I sometimes watch porn when I'm not in the mood as I know it will turn me on in a shorter period of time (fewer days later). Maybe you could try that.
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Re: Finding sex "boring"

Unread postby iamfirework » 26th November, 2016, 1:17 pm

I think you have a problem
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Re: Finding sex "boring"

Unread postby AlexAkri » 27th January, 2017, 10:11 am

I think your not insecure anymore really. You don't have the need to be with someone nor do u need to experience sexual pleasure. You've become content with who u are, that u don't need masterbate in order to feel good. I think this issue is more psychological than physical. U haven't over done it. Don't force urself to keep up the routine because ur afraid u will never find it exciting again. It doesn't make u any less normal to be uninterested in the act anymore, although I think it's only temporary. Don't stress
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