What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/girl?

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Unread postby Circles » 22nd April, 2016, 10:35 am

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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby Thotiana » 22nd April, 2016, 4:36 pm

A nice face :rofl: :awesome:
That sounds so vain LOL :rofl:
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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby Rainbrojacob » 22nd April, 2016, 11:20 pm

The first most important thing that attracts me to a guy is if they are gay :rofl2: :rofl2:
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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby Dessy » 23rd April, 2016, 12:26 am

Did I say armpit before? I also like armpit.
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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby Ethán » 23rd April, 2016, 1:07 am

Ears are pretty cute tbh
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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby Thotiana » 23rd April, 2016, 1:24 am

trxuvaille wrote:Ears are pretty cute tbh


Are elves cute to ya? :rofl:
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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby Ethán » 23rd April, 2016, 1:48 am

Thotiana wrote:
trxuvaille wrote:Ears are pretty cute tbh


Are elves cute to ya? :rofl:

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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby Thotiana » 23rd April, 2016, 2:21 am

trxuvaille wrote:
Thotiana wrote:
trxuvaille wrote:Ears are pretty cute tbh


Are elves cute to ya? :rofl:

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:unf: :unf: Does this answer ur question?


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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby Zefare » 23rd April, 2016, 3:18 am

I think the vast majority of humans would consider the face first and foremost when deciding whether a person is attractive or not. I wouldn't really care much for the rest of the body if the head is not well-kept. But what really gets me attracted is body language/behavior/personality. The way a person acts overrides the way he/she looks. I'm attracted to knowledge and culture; I wouldn't date someone who acts like an uncivilized barbarian. But most of all, I'm attracted to niceness. I would easily fall for someone who's kind and compassionate as opposed to someone so selfish and condescending.

EDIT: Neatness is always a plus. If this person keeps himself neat and orderly, as well as his/her surroundings, I would be more attracted.
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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby MojoMann » 23rd April, 2016, 4:01 am

The face :keke: I'm way less sexually attracted, more romantically (crush, no boner) but the face and personality are the reasons I fall for people all the time.
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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby Jedikiah » 19th December, 2016, 10:21 pm

I have four criterias:

A: Looks

The eyes and hair is the thing that makes me go crazy. Other features my contribute but the first thing I notice is their eyes and hair.

B: The personality

If you are a bad bitch, cool. If you are a basic bitch, ok. If you are rude, bye.

C: Actions and thoughts

First things first, if you want to be in a relationship, you must be loyal. I dated a guy for 4 years and if you can be as loyal as him (or even more loyal), good. Secondly, how you treat society. If you treat others with whatever actions you took reasonably, ok. If they are rude to you, you may roast them back. If they are nice to you, then be nice to them back. Do things reasonably and rationally.

D: Physicality

If you are not fit, byeeeeeeeeeeee. I need someone to train martial arts with since Ive mastered 5 martial arts. I need to keep up with my skills. Might as well teach my bf/hubby martial arts so that he can protect himself also. And I will also teach my son/daughter. You don't need to be buff or whatever, just as long as you're fit.
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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby bottleneck97 » 20th December, 2016, 12:24 pm

For me the face is the most important. I honestly can't say I have a "type", so eye/hair/skin colour don't matter too much, but if I like his face and he isn't behaving like a dick and isn't a creep, sign me up!
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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby jack21 » 21st December, 2016, 8:46 am

Probably body shape first- if he's muscular I won't even bother :P
After that probably sense of humour, willingness for physical contact, and whether his haircut suits him :lol:

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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby M4DNESS » 21st December, 2016, 12:08 pm

His intelligence. Hence why I chose my current boyfriend. Good looks and a hot smile is just a plus.
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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby Charlie » 21st December, 2016, 12:29 pm

Depends what I want the "guy" for, but I guess we're talking about people who I'd like to date.

In which case its an oddly specific yet random blend of good looks (or what I'll constitute as attractive) good sense of humour and intelligence. Bonus points if they're of good breeding and know how scrub up, but that can be taught if needs must.

Oh and must not be straight.


That last one always catches me out.
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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby Knope » 21st December, 2016, 10:02 pm

Initial attraction is based on mix of face and personality/demeanor. Anything after that is mostly learning more about who they are.
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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby chris1090 » 22nd December, 2016, 9:46 am

Firstly the hair and nose
Then his personality
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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby idktho » 22nd December, 2016, 6:44 pm

Face and body.
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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby Jedikiah » 23rd December, 2016, 1:25 am

Oooo the teeth too. If that thing is beautiful thats a plus.
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Re: What's the first/most important thing that attracts you to a guy/g

Unread postby Terry J. » 14th January, 2017, 12:58 am

Relative symmetry and proportion in the face and rest of body. Color coordination of natural features.
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