When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Discuss sexuality, whether your own or someone else's.

When did you first question your sexuality?

Younger than 8
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8-10
27
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11-13
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14-16
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17-19
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Hohenidoom » 31st May, 2015, 5:54 pm

percyle1998 wrote:
Homonecksual wrote:There was never really a time I questioned it I guess as soon as I knew I had a sexuality I knew I was gay, like, the first time I watched porn I just went straight to guys. :lol: :lol: :lol:

Qwoooooooo!
That's brilliant LoL



Pretty clear then huh :D
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby rxxli » 31st May, 2015, 6:30 pm

I always kind off knew that I was gay actually. Properly realized it? When I was about 12. But I kind of felt it before then. The earliest memory of me being attracted to a guy was when I was about 7 but of course you aren't thinking about it in that way when you are so young.

I too went for the "naked guys" at the beginning. There was really no straight porn for me.
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Maxis » 31st May, 2015, 6:36 pm

I realized on about my 13th birthday. I had an individual (who shall not be named) who kinda pushed me up against a wall and got very close. They thought it was funny to start grinding me and just like that I realized that I loved it. So thanks to horny people that are stronger than me I realized I like men but its all good.
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby swf96 » 4th June, 2015, 4:38 am

I realized I was bisexual when I was 11 and had my first wet dream where I happened to be with a guy. It was a terrifying experience at first but over time I have become more comfortable with my sexuality. Hitting puberty seems to be a common period when we figure out our sexuality. I suppose its due to all the hormonal changes and the first time having sexual attractions. I also had wet dreams and crushes with girls too so it was very confusing feelings for me being bi because I had and still can't figure out which gender I prefer. I just know if I fall in love with someone I want to fall in love with them as a person and the sexual attraction of course helps.
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby swf96 » 4th June, 2015, 4:38 am

I find it strange however that I find myself more aroused by gay porn than straight porn but in real life I have had more crushes with girls than guys. Anyways I am happy at least I am open minded towards dating and I guess that is the perk of being bisexual.
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Lenarts » 4th June, 2015, 4:47 am

Since kindergarten, because my best friends mum died and next year his dad had a husband, and that was something new, he was also my IT teacher in grade school.
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Patrix01 » 4th June, 2015, 9:23 am

Never, even when I was a child I was kinda thinking about men, and when I reached 13 I instantly stasrted watching gay porn :P

At least I didn't have any problems with it :D
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Souza » 4th June, 2015, 10:34 am

the minute I started sucking on my mother's tits I realized that I have a natural gift for sucking cock

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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby nab21 » 4th June, 2015, 11:00 am

I always kinda knew I was gay. I properly acknowledged it around 9th grade.
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Dessy » 4th June, 2015, 12:25 pm

Souza wrote:the minute I started sucking on my mother's tits I realized that I have a natural gift for sucking cock

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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Edarchie » 11th June, 2015, 11:01 am

Shyn wrote:I was around 14-15, and I feel like loving cute boy faces….
That's the time i usually stalk everyone in the school :v
Then I know I'm gay!


Lol pretty much exactly the same here haha XD
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Edarchie » 11th June, 2015, 11:20 am

Edarchie wrote:
Shyn wrote:I was around 14-15, and I feel like loving cute boy faces….
That's the time i usually stalk everyone in the school :v
Then I know I'm gay!


Lol pretty much exactly the same here haha XD


That was after I had a huge crush on this girl in my school, and I first started watching striaght porn, then idk why I started to have feelings for guys, especially when I moved away from that girl I had a crush on. After her I've only really had crushes on guys and eventually started watching gay porn. Weirdly enough, sometime I still watch striaght porn. But now I know that I like guys more.
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Zeus » 11th June, 2015, 5:14 pm

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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Xander1 » 11th June, 2015, 11:13 pm

I think I was about 12 or 13 when I first questioned it.... although actually acknowledging it came waaaaaaaaay later


swf96 wrote:I find it strange however that I find myself more aroused by gay porn than straight porn but in real life I have had more crushes with girls than guys.


:werd: now that you mention it, that also proves true for me :blargh:
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby rainbowbulldog » 12th June, 2015, 3:12 am

I was 11 when I first started questioning my sexuality. There was only so much time I could waste fantasizing about my teacher bending me over my desk before I started seriously thinking about my sexuality.
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Zach (with a zed) » 12th June, 2015, 4:00 am

I was pretty confident about my sexuality in kindergarten, until society messed that up and forced me to question it for the next 6 years or so. I don’t remember anything related to by sexuality before kindergarten, so I’ll say I started questioning at 5.

At some point in the year, the kids in my kindergarten class started having “boyfriends” and “girlfriends”, and I knew that I wanted a boyfriend instead of a girlfriend. So, I naturally asked my best friend Aaron to be my boyfriend and he turned me down because he had a girlfriend and wasn’t sure whether you were allowed to have both at the same time. On the bus a while later, some older boys asked me if I had a girlfriend and laughed when I said that I didn’t. I tried to save face by saying that I had a boyfriend instead, which obviously made them laugh more and call me “gay”, which I hadn't even heard before. When my older brother heard about it from the other boys, he explained what it meant, why they laughed, and said, “Just don’t be gay”.

Throughout elementary school, I did have a couple crushes and wanted to pursue a few gay/girly interests. But, I’d become aware of how homophobic my grandparents are, so I ignored any feelings I had and “decided” at some point not to be gay.

In 5th grade, the kids in my grade started to get really nasty about calling people gay, asking if people were gay, and generally using it as an insult. My teacher called a class meeting, explained how rude and hurtful it was, and announced that she going to start handing out suspensions if it continued. When one kid argued that just asking someone if they were gay was okay, she explained why it was rude, using the analogy of asking someone if they’re pregnant. I remember her explaining that there’s nothing wrong with or abnormal about being pregnant (or gay), but that you shouldn’t ask people because if they are pregnant and ready to tell people, they will. Otherwise, you’re just going to hurt their feelings or make them feel awkward. Anyway, she was the first person that I knew in real life who said that being gay was normal, and she simultaneously made me feel like it was okay to be gay and to keep it to myself for a while. It also helped that my classmates listened to her, cut out the gay comments, and started defending each other against kids from other classes. I did some gay vs. bi questioning in middle school, but by the beginning of 8th grade I was as confident in my sexuality as I am now.

Sincerest apologies for the length if you made it through that.
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby muddylegs » 12th June, 2015, 9:06 am

Zach (with a zed) wrote:I was pretty confident about my sexuality in kindergarten, until society messed that up and forced me to question it for the next 6 years or so. I don’t remember anything related to by sexuality before kindergarten, so I’ll say I started questioning at 5.

For real? o.o
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby MrFizz » 12th June, 2015, 4:00 pm

I think I've always kind of known deep down but it never really came to mind until I realized I had a crush on this boy in by 7th grade math class. It wasn't until late 8th grade when I finally came to terms and accepted that I'm gay. Moral of the story, something can be learned from math class (I still can barely find x :P )
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Arty » 12th June, 2015, 4:04 pm

When a guys dick was in my mouth :dunno:
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Zach (with a zed) » 12th June, 2015, 6:41 pm

muddylegs wrote:
Zach (with a zed) wrote:I was pretty confident about my sexuality in kindergarten, until society messed that up and forced me to question it for the next 6 years or so. I don’t remember anything related to by sexuality before kindergarten, so I’ll say I started questioning at 5.

For real? o.o

If you're referring to my first statement, I was being facetious. If you mean the second, then yes, "for real".
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