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Re: I finally told my bestfriend :D BACKFIRED AND SHE'S TOLD HER BOYFR

Unread postby QUIFFSareAMAZING » 8th February, 2015, 1:21 pm

Today my so called "Bestfriend" told her boyfriend, I don't like her boyfriend since he's immature, nasty and a hypocrite. Anyway she said he "guessed" about it and she admitted to it, she then said she started cry and felt really bad. But she says he promise he won't tell anyone but i know he will. I'm feeling sad,angry and not caring at the same time... :/
Looks like my closet door is starting to come open...
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Re: I finally told my bestfriend :D BACKFIRED AND SHE'S TOLD HER BOYFR

Unread postby Floyd » 8th February, 2015, 1:39 pm

QUIFFSareAMAZING wrote:Today my so called "Bestfriend" told her boyfriend, I don't like her boyfriend since he's immature, nasty and a hypocrite. Anyway she said he "guessed" about it and she admitted to it, she then said she started cry and felt really bad. But she says he promise he won't tell anyone but i know he will. I'm feeling sad,angry and not caring at the same time... :/
Looks like my closet door is starting to come open...

Oh, George :/

That really sucks. Your friend presumably knows that she's the first person you've told? Hopefully it was an accident on her part. Either way, dick move.

Luckily the 30 or so people I've told have (to my knowledge :lol: ) kept quiet. All I'd say is don't let it stop you coming out to others...not everyone breaks that trust...
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Re: I finally told my bestfriend :D BACKFIRED AND SHE'S TOLD HER BOYFR

Unread postby Thumper » 8th February, 2015, 2:45 pm

"A door, once opened, may be stepped through in either direction."

It does suck, George, and I'm sorry. People betray trust, especially in a school scenario, and a place like school is a breeding ground for gossip. It's probably 50:50 as to whether this will spread or not.

However, this isn't necessarily a bad thing. You've said how nervous you were about telling Amy, and now, you may not actually have to tell that many more people. The most important thing to remember is just to stay strong. If someone asks at school, then answer straight up and honestly. Denying it will just make things harder further down the line. People aren't going to take it badly, and I bet that really not a lot of people will have anything to say about it at all. You're going to be okay, bud. You've got the strength to get through this and it won't knock you.
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Re: I finally told my bestfriend :D BACKFIRED AND SHE'S TOLD HER BOYFR

Unread postby mattyk » 8th February, 2015, 3:10 pm

Thumper wrote:People aren't going to take it badly, and I bet that really not a lot of people will have anything to say about it at all. You're going to be okay, bud. You've got the strength to get through this and it won't knock you.

So much this, George... I hope that you will be surprised at just how supportive people will be of you. Sure, you may strike a few people that mightn't understand but as far as your friends are concerned you're still the same amazing guy that you were a week ago - I genuinely hope they will see it that way. Who knows, you might be the reason a whole lot of people you know come out of their closets :dunno:
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Re: I finally told my bestfriend :D BACKFIRED AND SHE'S TOLD HER BOYFR

Unread postby QUIFFSareAMAZING » 9th February, 2015, 6:01 am

Thanks guys :D your advise has really helped! Now I'm worried if that guy (The one I made massive thread about) finds out that I like since he is popular and used to be a dick. Also him and his mates his mates might get creeped out and make nasty comments about me. luckily She did say she didn't tell her boyfriend about that guy, but I don't really trust her.... I think might just beg her on facetime not to tell him about that guy.
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Re: I finally told my bestfriend :D BACKFIRED AND SHE'S TOLD HER BOYFR

Unread postby Adam :D » 9th February, 2015, 12:08 pm

Sorry to hear George :(

The best thing you can do is be happy in yourself and to not let others get you down with comments or actions. :hug:

Also, fix your valentine link in your sig so I.. we can send luvvvv msgs :rant:
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Re: I finally told my bestfriend :D BACKFIRED AND SHE'S TOLD HER BOYFR

Unread postby LiamLovesOlly » 11th February, 2015, 6:49 pm

QUIFFSareAMAZING wrote:Today my so called "Bestfriend" told her boyfriend, I don't like her boyfriend since he's immature, nasty and a hypocrite. Anyway she said he "guessed" about it and she admitted to it, she then said she started cry and felt really bad. But she says he promise he won't tell anyone but i know he will. I'm feeling sad,angry and not caring at the same time... :/
Looks like my closet door is starting to come open...

This literally happened to me too! Pretty much. Came out in basically the same way, to my best friend at the time (except he was a guy). He didn't tell his girlfriend, but he told another girl who was just really a friend of a friend - what was worse is that he barely speaks to her! They were both in work experience in year 10 and they were on about gay people along with another guy and he said "my mate Liam is gay" and Kerrie figured he meant me because she knew we were best friends. Of course he told the other guy by extension but that didn't matter to me really matter to me because he didn't know me :p

What's odd is me and Kerrie got a lot closer in year 11! So I'm kinda lucky he told the "right" person, but it's just the principle... Our friendship was never the same, we had more setbacks and are literally in the past few months only getting better! So I kinda know how you feel if you need to talk ^_^
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Re: QUIFF'S Coming Thread....

Unread postby QUIFFSareAMAZING » 13th February, 2015, 3:34 am

Thanks all the support guys! I really appreciate it :) :thumbsup: :keke:
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Re: QUIFF'S Coming Thread....

Unread postby Finch » 13th February, 2015, 3:51 am

Aw congrats!
Still not getting what happened with Amy's bf and that girl you pretended to like. Did your friend just go and tell everyone?
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Re: QUIFF'S Coming Thread....

Unread postby QUIFFSareAMAZING » 13th February, 2015, 9:59 am

Finch wrote:Aw congrats!
Still not getting what happened with Amy's bf and that girl you pretended to like. Did your friend just go and tell everyone?

What don't you understand?
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Re: QUIFF'S Coming Out Thread....

Unread postby Floyd » 13th February, 2015, 12:52 pm

...I presume the tag for this isn't intentionally 'George's Coming Thread'?

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Re: QUIFF'S Coming Out Thread....

Unread postby QUIFFSareAMAZING » 30th March, 2015, 5:40 pm

UPDATE 2 :gay:
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Re: QUIFF'S Coming Out Thread....

Unread postby Jacketh » 30th March, 2015, 5:48 pm

Glad it is going well for you, George!! :keke:
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Re: QUIFF'S Coming Out Thread....

Unread postby Dessy » 30th March, 2015, 6:08 pm

That's great to hear, George.
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Re: QUIFF'S Coming Out Thread....

Unread postby SimplyNick » 30th March, 2015, 6:20 pm

I'm also really surprised how slow it's spreading around the school, people started to find out on the 16th of February and it's nearly 2 months later...

I know that bit's so frustrating isn't it? I hated that...
but yeah that's awesome George :hug: good on you :thumbsup:
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Re: QUIFF'S Coming Out Thread....

Unread postby JamieC » 30th March, 2015, 9:10 pm

N'aw that's amazing to hear it's going so well! :awesome: :awesome:
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Re: Quiff's coming out thread

Unread postby QUIFFSareAMAZING » 12th February, 2017, 7:24 pm

updated :blargh:
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Re: Quiff's coming out thread

Unread postby SimplyNick » 14th February, 2017, 2:45 pm

I can understand that :hug: actually what you said about saying I am gay in the mirror is something I am very familiar with x) Despite that most people think I am very at ease with my sexuality...
At the same time if I understand you correctly it may not be natural to you to just blurt out things like that and it could be your sexuality or anything else about you (but particularly sexuality). Maybe you would feel more at ease saying it in an actual context; I don't know much about your sex life or love life but if you had a date or something like that (or a boyfriend), it may give you something to hang on to in a conversation. The greatest fear is often to say I am gay and not to know where to go after that.
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Re: Quiff's coming out thread

Unread postby George » 14th February, 2017, 3:57 pm

Proud of u sis x
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Re: Quiff's coming out thread

Unread postby Milosamuel » 14th February, 2017, 5:36 pm

Aw, that was really nice to read. I completely agree with the whole mirror situation. It's so hard to just say those words, and hearing talks about it in school is just quite frightening.
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