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What's the most difficult thing about being gay?
 no one accepts me for who I am  2%  2%  [ 3 ]
 I have to hide my sexuality  28%  28%  [ 48 ]
 persecution from family  7%  7%  [ 12 ]
 persecution from my religion  3%  3%  [ 5 ]
 self loathing  7%  7%  [ 12 ]
 smaller pool of potential mates  32%  32%  [ 55 ]
 not being able to have children  8%  8%  [ 13 ]
 bullies  5%  5%  [ 8 ]
 other (please specify)  8%  8%  [ 14 ]
Total votes: 170

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Unread postPosted: 25th July, 2012, 7:21 pm 
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feel free to vote and comment

  
 
Unread postPosted: 25th July, 2012, 7:33 pm 
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Finding another gay who you like.

  
 
Unread postPosted: 25th July, 2012, 7:38 pm 
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For me, my family is my main concern. I don't think I would be accepted if I came out to them and I couldn't handle it if they rejected me. I came out to my 'close friend' a while ago and, although he said it doesn't matter, since then he's been slowly avoiding me. So yeah i'm scared of my family's reaction and I keep thinking they would kick me out and hate me forever (I think of the extreme case scenarios :( ).

On a sillier note, finding the right guy :rofl2:

  
 
Unread postPosted: 25th July, 2012, 11:07 pm 
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Honestly, I feel like I'm lucky that my biggest problem is finding other gay guys who may wanna date

  
 
Unread postPosted: 25th July, 2012, 11:13 pm 
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I would have to say how the media portrays us and basicly how everyone thinks of us but I just really have a hard time with the haters like we don't choose this way we are who we are. :gay:

  
 
Unread postPosted: 25th July, 2012, 11:18 pm 
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That some guys think I'm automatically into them because I'm gay. I can't find a gym buddy to run treadmill with because they think I'm checking out their junk. :shake:

  
 
Unread postPosted: 25th July, 2012, 11:20 pm 
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Zier wrote:
Finding another gay who you like.


This.

  
 
Unread postPosted: 25th July, 2012, 11:39 pm 
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I hate when straight guys automatically assume I'm gonna hit on them because I'm gay.

  
 
Unread postPosted: 25th July, 2012, 11:46 pm 
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troyjak wrote:
I hate when straight guys automatically assume I'm gonna hit on them because I'm gay.

:werd: They think they're all that. :lostpainting:

But for me the biggest problem is not being able to have a little baby-me. :(

  
 
Unread postPosted: 26th July, 2012, 12:09 am 
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It means you will never have a normal life. It doesn't matter if propaganda says "it's okay to be gay and you can adopt". It's not normal and it never will be, and I'm aware of this.

Most of people will never accept you. IT DOESN'T MATTER IF THEY TOLERATE GAYS OR NOT - they will either accept you but feel better than you anyway or they will openly hate you. It's rare to see real people accepting others the way they are. For most women, gay friend is only a fashionable add-on.

I was bullied. I often had to act like someone else, just to fit.

I am happy. It doesn't matter what other people think or if I can't have kids and "be normal". I accepted myself. And so did my real friends.

  
 
Unread postPosted: 26th July, 2012, 12:11 am 
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Hiding my sexuality.):

  
 
Unread postPosted: 26th July, 2012, 12:16 am 
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troyjak wrote:
I hate when straight guys automatically assume I'm gonna hit on them because I'm gay.

Especially when if they hadn't said anything I totally would've hit on them :argh:

  
 
Unread postPosted: 26th July, 2012, 12:18 am 
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When I'm too fabulous for a situation.

  
 
Unread postPosted: 26th July, 2012, 12:18 am 
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being a colored person along with it

  
 
Unread postPosted: 26th July, 2012, 12:31 am 
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Unread postPosted: 26th July, 2012, 12:33 am 
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too bad i cant vote on 2 options. telling people that i'm gay and having smaller pool of potential mates :u

  
 
Unread postPosted: 26th July, 2012, 12:37 am 
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There are like 4 different things from that list that I fear may happen when I come out.


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Unread postPosted: 26th July, 2012, 12:42 am 
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Asses don't self-lubricate.

  
 
Unread postPosted: 26th July, 2012, 12:52 am 
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Not being accepted by your family.. :)

  
 
Unread postPosted: 26th July, 2012, 12:54 am 
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Not knowing why and having so many questions that you just have to suck up and leave unanswered.

  
 
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