Gay Dating in High School

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Gay Dating in High School

Unread postby dream3jr » 9th February, 2012, 3:41 am

title says it all i need help on ways to actually keep a relationship in svool its a bit nervewracking
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Re: Gay Dating in High School

Unread postby Songun1 » 9th February, 2012, 3:44 am

If the title says it all, you're not giving us enough information.

What are we supposed to say?

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Re: Gay Dating in High School

Unread postby JGlig » 9th February, 2012, 3:45 am

Don't give us too many details to work with, shit.
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Re: Gay Dating in High School

Unread postby dream3jr » 9th February, 2012, 3:48 am

Sorry well im a senior im not out i have started to get feelings for a sophomore but im still seeing if hes into guys

I just recently joined the Gay Straight Alliance club at my school which i never thought i would do but i felt more comfortable the day i went in ... Im the shy person type
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Re: Gay Dating in High School

Unread postby Prox » 9th February, 2012, 5:00 am

So...there's finding a guy problems, showing interest problems, execution problems...

Or just anxiety problems. You can do it, guy. You are aware of the steps. No one here told you to join the GSA. Just relax, look good, and do as your body says.

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Re: Gay Dating in High School

Unread postby Cobalt » 9th February, 2012, 6:04 am

Suck his dick and see what happens.
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Re: Gay Dating in High School

Unread postby Nevermore » 9th February, 2012, 6:09 am

Send him a valentines day card/gift thing and see how he responds. Anything other than a look of pure revulsion is a positive sign :thumbsup:
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Re: Gay Dating in High School

Unread postby Stormwatcher » 9th February, 2012, 11:35 am


The Hierophant wrote:How Fags Evaluate Sexuality:

How much do you want to fuck him (1-10)? This is your base number.

POSITIVES: For every one of the following that is true, add one to your base number.
Would you have sex with him?
Does he like cats?
Has he looked at you?
Are you desperate to fuck him?
Is he skinny?
Is he attractive?
Is he good looking?
Do you really want to fuck him?
Is he single?
Do you want to have sex with him?
Have you known him for a long time?
Did he tap you on the shoulder to get your attention?
If you had the choice, would you have sex with him?
Has he made gay jokes?
Do you fantasize about having sex with him?

Negatives: For every one of the following, use wishful thinking to ignore it.
Does he have a girlfriend? Who gives a fuck, he's probably just using her to hide his sexuality. If he's had sex with her, she obviously pressured him into it. If he hasn't, she's just his beard.
Did he deny being gay when you asked? He's obviously just closeted.
Has he made offensive gay jokes? He's obviously closeted.
Know nothing about him because you've never talked to him? Obviously gay.

If your final score (obtained by adding your base score to your POSITIVES) is a positive number, he must be gay! Congratulations. Now rape him.

Serious: Stop being pathetic. If it matters so much to you, ask him.


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Re: Gay Dating in High School

Unread postby no.way.back » 9th February, 2012, 3:05 pm

Cobalt wrote:Suck his dick and see what happens.

there should really be a smiley holding this sign :D
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Re: Gay Dating in High School

Unread postby ericb91 » 9th February, 2012, 3:34 pm

I had my first gay relationship in high school, we were both closeted so we were lucky to find each other, he came out to me, I came out to him, equals a lot of gay sex. I was in the same place you are, trying to find out because I had heard a rumor about him possibly being bi (he's gay now) so i asked his friends, they said they didn't know so I decided to befriend him and I'm glad I did. I don't know why I thought it would be good idea, but I always tried looking into his eyes and smile to try to get him to take the hint :facepalm2: ... It did work though, although it's really nerve racking when you're closeted and the fear of him not being gay and beating you up if you go to far..

He took the hint and started becoming friendlier and quite flirtatious, especially in private. Finally after 4 months of obvious flirting without having the guts to come out, he decided to do something so when I went to the store were he worked during the summer, at 1:30 in the morning, he saw me, pulled me into a corner and kissed me..

You have to put yourself out there and if he turns out to be hot for the cock, don't hesitate, attack cause there's not going to be a lot of opportunities like that in HS.
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Re: Gay Dating in High School

Unread postby Baker » 11th February, 2012, 12:17 am

Be careful.
Make sure you're both out (or you're screwed).
Stop giving a hoot what other people think.
Identify teachers that are supportive of y'all.

That is all.
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Re: Gay Dating in High School

Unread postby ImLeroy » 16th February, 2012, 1:07 pm

Me and my current boyfriend actually meet and got together in high school. It started off secret and eventually we started holding hands and eventually we became known around school and things worked out great. Once we got a threat but it was behind our back and nothing happened and people never really called us names just starred at us. But yeah. Go for it. Secret dating will deffinitly work too. :)
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Re: Gay Dating in High School

Unread postby spicyschwuler » 19th February, 2012, 11:02 pm

Go for it! I wish I would've had the balls to come out in HS. So many hot guys...
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Re: Gay Dating in High School

Unread postby Pillow » 20th February, 2012, 4:11 am

Meh. If you were to go for it, then don't get too attached since you're a senior and he's a sophomore, unless of course you're planning on staying in the area post graduation. Trust me, if not, it'll lead to heart break if you try long distance. :( :wtc: :wtc: :wtc: sigh... Ahem...
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Re: Gay Dating in High School

Unread postby back2back » 15th March, 2012, 5:43 pm

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Re: Gay Dating in High School

Unread postby eterna » 15th March, 2012, 5:54 pm

It's risky.
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Re: Gay Dating in High School

Unread postby Cupid Stunt » 15th March, 2012, 7:59 pm

you gotta risk it to get the biscuit

risk - by coming on to/out to someone you get ostracised till you leave school

potential reward - copius butt sex

choice is your's
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Re: Gay Dating in High School

Unread postby ColdPR » 15th March, 2012, 9:36 pm

At my school gay dating is not really a problem, partly because people are cool with it, partly because there aren't really any gay couples. My boyfriend and I think we may be the only open gay guy couple, at least in our grade. I know a girl friend who has a same-sex relationship as well but that's about it. Surprises me because my high school is a pretty safe/welcoming place
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