There is this guy that I really like that works at Subway. For a while now, every Monday night when I get off my job I go see him and get a sub since he apparently works every Monday night. He is usually chill and glad to see me since I am basically his last customer of the night. Anyway we typically talk for a bit as he is fixing my sub and quite a while after he checks me out. We have great conversations and have a few stuff in common. We go to the same community college and all but I am an online student. I have sort of grown to like him. He even saves the toppings I like just because he know I will be coming in around the same time every Monday night. He even tries to remember what toppings to put on my sub.

However he never mentioned having a girl friend in any of our conversations so it is up in the air whether he is actually gay. I kinda get that gay vibe from him but cannot be too sure and I do not want to be upfront with him by asking. I know it sounds like he is just being nice but I cannot stop thinking about him and I look forward to seeing him every Monday.

I want to hang out with him sometime but I do not know if he likes me the same way even to hang out. I can tell he gets a little nervous around me and I get a little nervous around him.

It would be great if we just became great friends and even better if he actually liked me. What should I do?

Also, the other day I ran into him there I tried asking him if he wanted to hang out sometime during our conversation and he just kept on talking.

He said he likes talking to me and he looks forward to me walking in. I really cannot stop thinking about him. I really want to ask him out sometime but I do not know how to bring it up properly in the conversation.

In this case, I'd suggest you get a little creepy.
Start by getting info like his name, then look him up on facebook. Try finding out what he's in to, who his friends are. If they are mostly girls and he doesn't look like he has any 'bros', then more than likely, he's gay.
If you want better counsel, then post his pic as it'll help us asses you through our collective gaydar.

slow down there cowboy. keep flirting, and ask him if he wants to go to a bar or maybe a movie with you (make sure to say "a bar" - that way he may think that you are straight. ask about going to a bar first, then if he doesn't want to go to a bar, then offer the movie. let him decide the bar or the movie)

you still need to figure whether or not he is gay. try asking about past girlfriends. if he asks about your past relationships, be honest about them (even if they were with guys).

Still in college, probably under age.

First determine if he's gay. Have you e-stalked him yet?

Well I got his name a few weeks ago and we discuss a few personal stuff. Nothing about a girlfriend has came up and we have been talking every monday for about 3 months now...

I know it's a little weird for me to see him every Monday but he seems to not have a problem with it. Btw sadly, I cannot find him within facebook.

I just get nervous when I am around him so its not like I can just flat out ask him if he has a girlfriend. Or can I?

Btw. I cannot really ask him to go to a bar. We both still in college.

dont ask if he has a girlfriend, unless you are playfully doing it. so you can flat out ask, but make it playful (that way, he thinks you aren't coming on to him. also, ask about how his holidays are going to go)

Suck his dick and see what happens.

I seriously am confused.

I really cannot stop thinking about this guy and its driving me nuts. I feel like every time I go in to talk to him we are just having a simple sit down chat that typically always last 30 minutes to an hour. I really want to tell him I like him but I am afraid he is either straight or a closeted gay. I find it so cute that he always saves my favorite bread for me at night knowing I am coming in late.

Should I just ask him if he is gay? Or some how bring up in the conversation that I am gay and see how he reacts?

I do not want to make things awkward.

are you out the clouset?? if you are, i would bring it in your conversation- i mean, if he is gay-its great, if he is straight but has no problem with gays- its good too you could just become friends, and if he is straight and homophobic- its also good becouse sooner or later he would find out and it would hurt you more if you two would grow close..

Just ask him.

Ask about his holiday plans, and then ask if he has anyone special accompanying him wherever he's going.

Ask him for a footlong with extra salami

lol, in all seriousness, try to coax out his sexuality, ask him about gay related topics and see how he responds

This past Monday. I finally just told him we need to hang out whenever we can since i basically have no life because I work all the time . He said he was up for it and to just send him an email of when and where to meet up since I asked for him to send me a link for school through email.

Turns out that after he sent me the email, and I was able to find out his last name. I searched him on facebook and found out that his profile does says interested in MEN! Now I really think he might be interested.

So now.... I want to know how should I go about with doing this?

Where should we hang out for the first time? Should I friend him on facebook? How do I basically tell him I am interested in him also?

Yeah, friend him on facebook, and if hes interested in you, he'll check your profile and see that you are also interested in men, and then when you both meet up, you will both know the other is gay, and you can proceed to turn up the flirt

don't

just go with it! itd be better that you come out of this situation with a friend instead of nothing at all, maybe try spending some time away from subway together.. do you have a lot in common with him? etc, andd dont be so worried about his sexuality if he is not concerned about yours!

don't add him on fb .. it's too soon!

Ok. So I do know he is gay. So its a bad idea to friend him on facebook? Any suggestions on what I should send him back in email? Like where to hang out?

Also we have a few stuff in common. We really have not talked much about ourselves that much.