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Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby that-hot-dude » 18th November, 2011, 10:08 am

So last night I hooked up with a guy from craigslist. I was looking for a straight/bi guy to hook up and jack off with. We met up at a hotel room, he was a really cute nerdy type guy, real slim, glasses, nice cock. We exchanged massages, and messed around a bit. He sucked my dick and so on.

Now the weird part, I've always identified as straight curious, because I just like to have a good time with certain guys and have no emotional attraction whatsoever, and when its over I want them to go away and leave me alone. A chick I want to cuddle up and go to sleep with her afterwards. So I'm still trying to figure me out.

He on the other hand, said he is totally gay, 100%. But, he said he has NEVER EVER had any interest in anal whatsoever. I enjoy some anal play when I'm hot and bothered, but this dude says he's gay and don't even find gay porn with anal sex hot at all. Anyone else out there like that???? I'm very confused on how a totally gay guy can't want any actual intercourse....
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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby xyz72 » 18th November, 2011, 10:13 am

Being gay is just having an attraction to men, nothing more nothing less. There is quite a big number of gay men with no interest in anal sex whatsoever, some numbers suggest 30% but I have never seen any indication that the number really is that high. There definitely are many gay men with no interest in anal though.
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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby ericb91 » 18th November, 2011, 10:52 am

A friend of mine is like this... He just completely hates anal, receiving and giving.. I understand if you have a preference, like me, I'm a top, i will never take a cock up my ass (again..)

...but yeah, i agree it's weird..
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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby xyz72 » 18th November, 2011, 10:55 am

I hate it when gay guys call minorities within their own "gay community" "weird".
They just don't like it, what's so weird about that? And you have to agree that if you think about what anal sex actually is it is pretty disgusting so I don't see how it's not understandable to not like it?
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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby tyrannosaur » 18th November, 2011, 11:21 am

prets sure it's just a comfort thing. I'm scared to death of anal personally, but it's one of those things you have to do a few times before you get used to it, I think.
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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby ChickenHeart » 18th November, 2011, 11:26 am

I can see where he's coming from. Anal doesn't really appeal to me. I still think i'll do it but like i'd rather just have a cuddle and a kiss than anal. But i've never had anal so i'll never know unless i try it!
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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby That Canadian Guy » 18th November, 2011, 11:28 am

that-hot-dude wrote:

Now the weird part, I've always identified as straight curious,






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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby sm128 » 18th November, 2011, 2:56 pm

doesn't appeal to me either
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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby Jamie » 18th November, 2011, 2:59 pm

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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby Sprite » 18th November, 2011, 3:10 pm

When I was coming to terms with my sexuality, honestly it worried/scared me, and I wasn't into it at all. However, since then i'm all for it :naughty: not saying this is what's happening here, but you never know. Your opinions may change, and if you go ahead and experience it, who knows how you will feel. Try everything once, as they say!
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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 18th November, 2011, 3:32 pm

I just like to insert my penis raw into a man's anus, ejaculate, then suck out the cum (i.e. felch) and feed it to him, but I have no desire for a relationship with him. Surely I must be straight!
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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby Muspelli » 18th November, 2011, 3:34 pm

Not fond of anal myself. Head feels infinitely better and is considerably easier to accomplish. Why bother?
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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby Hiccup » 18th November, 2011, 3:38 pm

I've heard of people that use frot instead... look it up :P
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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby Lulitano » 18th November, 2011, 3:42 pm

Anal sex comes to define homosexual sex but really it isn't. It's for some people but not for others. Even straight people can have anal sex. It's just one of many positions, some like one, some like the other.
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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby Specter » 18th November, 2011, 4:33 pm

I'm like that. But I'm weird, I guess.
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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby nzguy » 18th November, 2011, 4:40 pm

Why are you here if you dont even want to have a relationship with a guy? :facepalm:
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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 18th November, 2011, 6:23 pm

nzguy wrote:Why are you here if you dont even want to have a relationship with a guy? :facepalm:

I guess he wants us to validate his proclaimed orientation. Just tell him what he wants to hear so he can sleep at night.
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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby jqexuuam » 18th November, 2011, 6:30 pm

Not all gays enjoy anal sex, just like not all heteros like it.
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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby You Yisi » 18th November, 2011, 6:59 pm

surprise of the century wrote:prets sure it's just a comfort thing. I'm scared to death of anal personally, but it's one of those things you have to do a few times before you get used to it, I think.

This. Plus I strongly dislike poo, and anus is where the poo comes out :pukey:
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Re: Gay but not into anal???

Unread postby Oigo » 18th November, 2011, 8:26 pm

I think a lot of guys think this way. Anal doesnt appeal much to me. But I think I would like it if I tried it.
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